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Harvey Weinstein scandal (Mod warning in op.)

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  • Registered Users Posts: 14,017 ✭✭✭✭StringerBell


    Why don't people just name who they are talking about, use the old "allegedly" in need be. Sure, I know its a selfish request but I can't be arsed googling around to see who a "high profile gay Hollywood power brokers" are or who Corey Feldman was talking about etc

    "People say ‘go with the flow’ but do you know what goes with the flow? Dead fish."



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,177 ✭✭✭PeterParker957


    Why don't people just name who they are talking about, use the old "allegedly" in need be. Sure, I know its a selfish request but I can't be arsed googling around to see who a "high profile gay Hollywood power brokers" are or who Corey Feldman was talking about etc

    I don't think we can name names can we ?

    BUT.. Look Who's Talking! :D:D:D


  • Registered Users Posts: 8,462 ✭✭✭brevity


    I think a lot of people in the industry know what's going on but have accepted that this is part and parcel and that's depressing.


  • Registered Users Posts: 33,203 ✭✭✭✭Penn


    conorhal wrote: »
    That same gossip has been prevelent for years regards a couple of high profile gay Hollywood power brokers also.
    It was very telling that the outrage over the interview that brought down Milo Yiannopoulos focused exclusively on his dismissive experience of abuse by an older man but had zero to say about his allusions as to what went on at the 'parties' he attended as a young man running with this Hollywood set and how very young and vunerable some of the attendees were in that same interview.

    Probably because Milo himself walked back what he'd said when asked about it and asked why he didn't report that abuse if he'd seen it. He said that when he said "boys" he meant "young men" over the age of consent.

    And if it was true, surely your outrage should be directed at Milo who claimed to have witnessed all this first hand but never went to the police to report it?


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,975 ✭✭✭optogirl


    I wonder why Rose McGowan and others weren't "brave" enough to speak out 20 years ago when the "abuse" was meant to be happening ?

    Clearly putting up with it got their careers progressed - and if you are willing to accept that, it's no business of mine.

    But don't come the victim decades later and expect to be taken seriously.

    You have zero understanding of the psychological effects of sexual abuse and the power play that was clearly involved here. Putting abuse in inverted commas doesn't make it imaginary.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 11,812 ✭✭✭✭sbsquarepants


    And she had a cold demeanor which suited her well for the femme fatale characters she was invariably cast as. She was really good in 'Casino', as well.

    She was brilliant in that - she's made some shíte but sure what actor hasn't. I've seen much worse actresses than Sharon Stone!
    I wonder why Rose McGowan and others weren't "brave" enough to speak out 20 years ago when the "abuse" was meant to be happening ?

    Clearly putting up with it got their careers progressed - and if you are willing to accept that, it's no business of mine.

    But don't come the victim decades later and expect to be taken seriously.

    No, I have to completely disagree with you here Peter.

    If you at one stage where young, possibly scared, certainly naïve and some sleazy **** bag like Weinstein takes advantage, but then years later as a successful, financially secure and supposedly more mature and worldly wise person you decide to speak out - that's well done you.

    Sometimes people make bad decisions, for all manner of reasons, fear, greed, naivety, the stupidity of youth, whatever - but no one is complicit in their own abuse!

    That's just the lie that scumbags tell their victims - you brought this on yourself, so you better be quite. It's just wrong.

    Fair play to Rose McGowan - she deserves admiration and respect, not abuse!


  • Registered Users Posts: 5,982 ✭✭✭Caliden


    I don't think we can name names can we ?

    BUT.. Look Who's Talking! :D:D:D

    Ah c'mon that's Hollywood's worst kept secret.

    Even South Park knows that one.

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Trapped_in_the_Closet_(South_Park)#Plot

    "Travolta and R. Kelly eventually join Cruise in the closet."


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,177 ✭✭✭PeterParker957


    optogirl wrote: »
    You have zero understanding of the psychological effects of sexual abuse and the power play that was clearly involved here. Putting abuse in inverted commas doesn't make it imaginary.

    I'm afraid that not all "abuse" is actually "abuse".

    If you feel you need to sleep your way to success then I won't judge you - much.

    But if you are dishonest about it, then yeah I will.


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,975 ✭✭✭optogirl


    I'm afraid that not all "abuse" is actually "abuse".

    If you feel you need to sleep your way to success then I won't judge you - much.

    But if you are dishonest about it, then yeah I will.

    Who slept their way to success? Who are you talking about?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,177 ✭✭✭PeterParker957


    optogirl wrote: »
    Who slept their way to success? Who are you talking about?

    Oh come on, no one is that feminist or naive surely ???

    Okay - not every single person allegedly assaulted (way too far using a word like that) was a victim.

    There are women with little discernible talent - the odious Ms McGowan would be one - who would take the opportunity to perform whatever disgusting tasks Weinstein requested and use it as a career opportunity*.

    Yes, like every story there are victims. Of course there are - and they far outweigh the chancers BUT you can't just go "man - bad and woman - good" in every scenario.


    * Google Madonna's description of her "harrassment" in the early 80s.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 2,975 ✭✭✭optogirl


    Oh come on, no one is that feminist or naive surely ???

    Okay - not every single person allegedly assaulted (way too far using a word like that) was a victim.

    There are women with little discernible talent - the odious Ms McGowan would be one - who would take the opportunity to perform whatever disgusting tasks Weinstein requested and use it as a career opportunity*.

    Yes, like every story there are victims. Of course there are - and they far outweigh the chancers BUT you can't just go "man - bad and woman - good" in every scenario.


    * Google Madonna's description of her "harrassment" in the early 80s.


    I didn't say man - bad, woman - good. That would be stupid. I am asking specifically in the Harvey Weinstein stuff, who 'slept their way to the top'. Rosa Mcgowan was in her early 20's when assaulted by HW and didn't speak out at the time because very often, victims are not believed, especially in a culture where it's a case of 'that's just the way he is'. It is often the case that victims of sexual assault take years to finally speak out, because there is huge shame & guilt associated with it, however illogical that might be.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,177 ✭✭✭PeterParker957


    optogirl wrote: »
    I didn't say man - bad, woman - good. That would be stupid. I am asking specifically in the Harvey Weinstein stuff, who 'slept their way to the top'. Rosa Mcgowan was in her early 20's when assaulted by HW and didn't speak out at the time because very often, victims are not believed, especially in a culture where it's a case of 'that's just the way he is'. It is often the case that victims of sexual assault take years to finally speak out, because there is huge shame & guilt associated with it, however illogical that might be.

    Or she liked the fact that a relatively attractive girl with zero talent was making a name for herself due to her "putting out" as I believe our American cousins term it.


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,975 ✭✭✭optogirl


    Or she liked the fact that a relatively attractive girl with zero talent was making a name for herself due to her "putting out" as I believe our American cousins term it.

    It doesn't sound like she liked it. It sounds like she was really damaged by it. Your pointing out her level of attractiveness just confirms the bullsh*t that victims have to go through when they do come forward. You honestly think she felt lucky to be assaulted in a hotel room?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 558 ✭✭✭Biggest lickspittle on boardz


    George Clooney has weighed in with a very revealing statement:
    'This is harassment on a very high level. And there’s an argument that everyone is complicit in it'

    And that seems to be the closest thing to the truth. It's like a rapey version of the Wicker Man come to life; the whole damn lot of them are in on it.
    They are more than happy to tolerate Disney child rapes (there is no indication that Weinstein is involved in this though), the odd drug induced overdose/murder, massive sexual exploitation, violence, threats, and extortion that would make the mafia blush.

    There is no redeeming Hollywood and its depraved culture. Just take off and nuke the whole damn sorry mess from orbit and be done with it.

    The only glimmer of hope I can see in this is that Trump has a major vendetta against the liberal Hollywood elites (and yes, he probably has skeletons in his closet too), and possibly there might be a congressional inquiry that will blown the whole damn thing to pieces for once and for all.

    It's time to bring down the temple.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,971 ✭✭✭_Dara_


    brevity wrote: »
    I think a lot of people in the industry know what's going on but have accepted that this is part and parcel and that's depressing.

    Some people want fame that bad. Most people shudder at the thought of fame, in my experience, but there is a large enough minority out there who actively want it and that all contributes towards it being an exploitative industry. I don’t see it as a gender issue either.


  • Registered Users Posts: 21,039 ✭✭✭✭retro:electro


    I'm afraid that not all "abuse" is actually "abuse".

    If you feel you need to sleep your way to success then I won't judge you - much.

    But if you are dishonest about it, then yeah I will.

    You're quite wrong actually. Rose's career has notably suffered while others who were complicit have prospered. She did not "sleep her way to the top". She was abused, she sued, and had a stagnant career as a result.


  • Registered Users Posts: 8,462 ✭✭✭brevity


    _Dara_ wrote: »
    Some people want fame that bad. Most people shudder at the thought of fame, in my experience, but there is a large enough minority out there who actively want it and that all contributes towards it being an exploitative industry. I don’t see it as a gender issue either.

    Yea, I think some might feel it's a means to an end.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,177 ✭✭✭PeterParker957


    optogirl wrote: »
    It doesn't sound like she liked it. It sounds like she was really damaged by it. Your pointing out her level of attractiveness just confirms the bullsh*t that victims have to go through when they do come forward. You honestly think she felt lucky to be assaulted in a hotel room?

    Not everyone is a victim.


  • Registered Users Posts: 2,975 ✭✭✭optogirl


    Not everyone is a victim.

    Yeah so you keep saying. I am aware that not everybody is a victim.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 23,495 ✭✭✭✭Billy86


    The only glimmer of hope I can see in this is that Trump has a major vendetta against the liberal Hollywood elites (and yes, he probably has skeletons in his closet too), and possibly there might be a congressional inquiry that will blown the whole damn thing to pieces for once and for all.
    If you're expecting fondler extraordinaire and paedophile associate Donald Trump to do the right thing... well, don't hold your breath!


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  • Registered Users Posts: 33,203 ✭✭✭✭Penn


    Oh come on, no one is that feminist or naive surely ???

    Okay - not every single person allegedly assaulted (way too far using a word like that) was a victim.

    There are women with little discernible talent - the odious Ms McGowan would be one - who would take the opportunity to perform whatever disgusting tasks Weinstein requested and use it as a career opportunity*.

    Yes, like every story there are victims. Of course there are - and they far outweigh the chancers BUT you can't just go "man - bad and woman - good" in every scenario.


    * Google Madonna's description of her "harrassment" in the early 80s.

    Rose McGowan has quite clearly stated that she was raped, and pressured into settling the case (and signing a non-disclosure agreement).

    Bringing a case for rape/sexual assault against someone like Harvey Weinstein and reaching a settlement (with a payout of $100k as well if I remember right) due to the power and influence HW held over her career prospects isn't something she would do for a career opportunity.

    Your argument seems to boil down to "She's not a good actress so therefore she must have had sex with him, then accused him of rape, then settled the case, all to advance her career"

    You don't need to be a "feminist" or "naive" to think that line of thinking is horsesh*t.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,177 ✭✭✭PeterParker957


    optogirl wrote: »
    Yeah so you keep saying. I am aware that not everybody is a victim.

    It would not appear so however.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,070 ✭✭✭✭pq0n1ct4ve8zf5


    brevity wrote: »
    I think a lot of people in the industry know what's going on but have accepted that this is part and parcel and that's depressing.

    I know a man who worked as a stunt man in Hollywood in the late 90s, dream job but he packed it in pretty quickly because of the things he saw going on, not even at parties, on set. And I don't mean groping, I don't mean creeps like Weinstein holding young actresses' careers hostage for sexual favours or just playing sick power games (Romola Garai's story is infuriating), I mean abuse of children by very famous and well regarded men, actively, materially facilitated by others and carried out blatantly. According to this guy it wasn't fear for his career that stopped him speaking out, it was fear for his safety. All he could do was leave and not be part of it.

    There's one particular actor he described as evil.


  • Registered Users Posts: 8,462 ✭✭✭brevity


    I know a man who worked as a stunt man in Hollywood in the late 90s, dream job but he packed it in pretty quickly because of the things he saw going on, not even at parties, on set. And I don't mean groping, I don't mean creeps like Weinstein holding young actresses' careers hostage for sexual favours or just playing sick power games (Romola Garai's story is infuriating), I mean abuse of children by very famous and well regarded men, actively, materially facilitated by others and carried out blatantly. According to this guy it wasn't fear for his career that stopped him speaking out, it was fear for his safety. All he could do was leave and not be part of it.

    There's one particular actor he described as evil.

    I do believe there is some shady child abuse ring going on. I've read some awful rumours.

    You raise an interesting point about the stunt man being afraid of his life rather than his career.

    Hollywood is a billion dollar industry, the idea that the only threat to someone who was repeatedly abused was "you'll never work in this town again" and they would be expected to keep stum is naive at best.

    They or their family would be would be murdered. "Heroin overdose" or "Car crash". And the powers that be wouldn't thing twice about doing it either.


  • Registered Users Posts: 21,039 ✭✭✭✭retro:electro


    Read this this morning-
    "Kate Winslet breaks her silence on disgraceful and appalling Weinstein sex abuse allegations"

    And at the end...
    "Winslet next stars in Woody Allen's "Wonder Wheel" set for release December 1st"..
    :rolleyes:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,177 ✭✭✭PeterParker957


    anna080 wrote: »
    Read this this morning-
    "Kate Winslet breaks her silence on disgraceful and appalling Weinstein sex abuse allegations"

    And at the end...
    "Winslet next stars in Woody Allen's "Wonder Wheel" set for release December 1st"..
    :rolleyes:

    That exactly the point, summed up right there.

    Career. Career. Career.


  • Registered Users Posts: 33,203 ✭✭✭✭Penn


    Email leaked that he apparently sent around certain circles within Hollywood trying to garner some support:

    "If the industry supports me, that is all I need"

    That's how he was able to do what he did for so long and get away with it. He shouldn't be let next door near the industry ever again. It's unlikely he'll ever face any criminal charges for what he's done, so at this point he'd be better off sailing into the sunset with his millions. His name is tarnished to the point where it's likely The Weinstein Company will be renamed in the next few months.


  • Registered Users Posts: 10,423 ✭✭✭✭Outlaw Pete


    _Dara_ wrote: »
    I don’t see it as a gender issue either.

    Oh you're right on that, it's absolutely isn't. Must have read a dozen or more autobiographies over the years by male actors that suggested they had slept with women in order to get roles. Especially stars from the 50's / 60's era. Most were nobodies at the time but some were already successful.

    In fact a male Bollywood star actually has recently claimed that a female producer told him he would only get the role if he slept with her. He turned her down though.

    I'm not so sure though that I'd feel all that sorry for anyone that shags someone for a role because they felt their career would nosedive if they didn't succumb (be they male or female). Perhaps if they were threatened in some fashion but just because they themselves felt that perhaps it would be best if they obliged? Nah. No sympathy. Many an actor and actress has walked and so why not them. At some point personal responsibility has to kick in. I recall Charlize Theron saying she walked out of some Director's mansion late at night after he told her she could have the role if she banged him. Gwyneth Paltrow and Cher did the same. Joan Collins in fact said she wasn't given the lead in Cleopatra because she wouldn't sleep with the producer. Liz Taylor got it. The role I mean.

    As for actors and actresses that did frequent the casting couch and had no shame about it: Burt Reynolds, Tony Curtis and Joan Crawford would be the names that spring to mind. I don't think Marilyn Monroe ever admitted it but she famously threw herself at directors for prestigious roles too.

    One famous story I'm surprised hasn't been mention so far (not just the thread, but online) is the infamous Thandie Newton one. For years it was spoken about that a video was doing the rounds of her masturbating for a director during an audition when she was 18. This director apparently screened it at parties on occasion and it got back to her so she decided to speak out about it and her story was that the director told her that it would be a scene for the film and so wanted to see how she would perform. Hhhm, not sure if it was before or after Flirting but would seem odd to me that anyone would believe a full on graphic (by all accounts) masturbation scene would ever appear in a mainstream film. I mean, we're talking about a time when Sharon Stone flashing pubic hair sent the world into meltdown. Who knows though, maybe she'll name him now. Certainly don't see any reason for her not to.


  • Registered Users Posts: 10,423 ✭✭✭✭Outlaw Pete


    Here's that Thandie Newton interview actually (where she talks about the audition - first time I've seen it) and in it she seems to suggest it wasn't near as explicit as I had initially read it was in a few articles and so I'd give her version more credence as a result. The way it was spoken about over the years was as if only her and the director were present and it was pornographic in nature. Not the case at all.





    Hope she names this guy now after all these years. Understandable not to at the time, of course, her career was just beginning, but now would be the time to shame such directors.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 11,812 ✭✭✭✭sbsquarepants


    I know a man who worked as a stunt man in Hollywood in the late 90s, dream job but he packed it in pretty quickly because of the things he saw going on, not even at parties, on set. And I don't mean groping, I don't mean creeps like Weinstein holding young actresses' careers hostage for sexual favours or just playing sick power games (Romola Garai's story is infuriating), I mean abuse of children by very famous and well regarded men, actively, materially facilitated by others and carried out blatantly. According to this guy it wasn't fear for his career that stopped him speaking out, it was fear for his safety. All he could do was leave and not be part of it.

    There's one particular actor he described as evil.

    Is her story that she once seen a man in his dressing gown? That's all I can seem to find!

    As for the guy being afraid for his safety - I don't think it's too far a leap to suggest that the kind of scumbag that will abuse women and even kids, might go that step further to protect all those billions of dollars!

    Where there is that kind of money, there are always people willing to do whatever it takes to protect it! Doesn't make any difference how the money is made.


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